The One Thing That Changed My Perspective on Happiness!!

There are some people that I know I would be friends with if i had the chance to spend the time, and some people I should never ever interact with and share my energy or invest my time with. And I’ll admit, this are the mistakes I had. Something that stuck with me: the key to happiness is forgiving yourself .It sounds so simple, but like many things in life, it’s calmer said than done. Here are a few key things to recall when you are working on forgiving yourself:

 “Admit how you got it wrong”

You cannot make compensations if you don’t believe that you did anything wrong and take ownership of what you did. You have to deal with it, face what you did, and the condition that was created by what you did. We are all human and we are all going to make mistakes in life remember that nothing you do will change what occurred and that you did the greatest that you could with the tools that you had at the period. Say it with me, I cannot unwrap the past

So you did something wrong, by chance or possibly knowing better.  What is done is done, now let’s deal with the feelings you have built up around it and pardon yourself.

“Prepare for a restart and try again”

Punishing yourself for the past only blocks you from your own contentment in the present. You are permissible to grow and to become a better person. Comparison is the thief of joy, so do not set your sights on whatever other than being better than you were yesterday, if you focus on that, you will feel so much improved than if you’re just worrying about what other people have. In order to live each day well than the last, you have to stop beholding backwards.

The only way that the things become truth is if you start to believe them into happening. The things that you have faith in have power because you believe them. Let go of those undesirable beliefs to give yourself room to grow.

“A restart is not a redo”

While it’s significant to forgive yourself, there are two things you have to remember always, others may remain to hold on because you cannot control how anyone else thinks or feels, and forgiveness is not consent to do it again. You can’t power someone else’s forgiveness, and just because you say sorry doesn’t mean that the person who feels hurt will accept it; however, that does not mean have to stay to punish yourself for whatever happened. The world is a better place when we all have space to be healthier people than we were yesterday. In order to grow as people, we have to learn from our faults and our past. We have to excuse ourselves even when others might not. Forgiveness is an essential and necessary part of building a loving and trusting relationship with yourself.

What has helped you forgive yourself?